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People talk about acceptance as if it’s an emotional milestone you eventually reach sometime after being fired unfairly.
Like grief stages, closure, or something you’ll get to once you’ve “processed enough.”
But what most people are actually waiting for isn’t peace. They’re waiting for the correction. For someone to say, plainly:
“This wasn’t handled well.”
“You weren’t the problem after all.”
“We got this wrong.”
Not publicly or dramatically. Just accurately.
Until then, acceptance feels less like healing and more like agreeing to carry a false story forward alone.
So what prevents you from moving on isn’t confusion about what happened.
It’s the absence of correction. The possibility that the people in authority were right.
That maybe your discomfort is oversensitivity.
That maybe your harm was imagined.
That maybe this is just what accountability feels like.
When no one corrects the record, your doubt has room to grow. And over time, the hardest part isn’t the loss of the role.
It’s living with the unanswered question of whether you’re seeing clearly at all.
And the question that lingers isn’t how to accept it.
It’s how to trust your perception when leadership never corrects itself.
